Since I've been back, these few things have struck me as odd in typical (generally speaking) American Behavior:
1. They are very smiley
2. They are very quiet in general (don't want to disturb the neighbors)
3. They are tense and reserved
4. They walk funny (they lean forward a lot)
5. They don't have "flow" like Haitians do
6. Americans look at you funny and think you're narcissistic if you think of yourself as beautiful and say so.
7. They are not very touchy
8. They do not like waiting for anything
It has been interesting noticing these things in Americans and remembering noticing the opposite in Haitians and thinking it was different. Now looking back, the "Haitian Way" became normal to me and even part of me so that the things that WERE normal and part of me became abnormal. It's all what you get used to and accept as part of your culture. And by "your culture" I mean the culture you become inside of you. For example, I am not all-American anymore; I have some Haitian in me; yet I am not completely Haitian either. Each person chooses what they let become part of them and shape them into the person they are.
Friday, August 16, 2013
Friday, August 9, 2013
What grand camp is really all about...
Grand Camp follows Mini-Camp (update to come) and is three weeks during July. Following is a list of the true priorities of Grand Camp:
1. Students doing my hair
2. Students finding out who my crush is
3. Posing for my paparazzi (no joke)
4. La Bouille
5. Strategic peeing (i.e being at a bathroom with tp and soap when I need to pee--not very good at this)
6. Stinky dusty feet
7. Taking naps when I can
8. Being hot and sweaty
9. Being loud and obnoxious
10. Dancing
11. Sight reading quartets, trios, etc
12. Enjoying the lovely trees and bugs
13. Ants my food
14. Stairs. Lots of stairs.
15. Hanging out with my friends
16. Did I mention music?
What we should really call Grand Camp is:
ASCWA - A Swirling Chaotic Whirlwind of Activity
Pics still to come!
1. Students doing my hair
2. Students finding out who my crush is
3. Posing for my paparazzi (no joke)
4. La Bouille
5. Strategic peeing (i.e being at a bathroom with tp and soap when I need to pee--not very good at this)
6. Stinky dusty feet
7. Taking naps when I can
8. Being hot and sweaty
9. Being loud and obnoxious
10. Dancing
11. Sight reading quartets, trios, etc
12. Enjoying the lovely trees and bugs
13. Ants my food
14. Stairs. Lots of stairs.
15. Hanging out with my friends
16. Did I mention music?
What we should really call Grand Camp is:
ASCWA - A Swirling Chaotic Whirlwind of Activity
Pics still to come!
Monday, July 8, 2013
Meditations with Kelsey
Meditations
with Kelsey, entry #1
“Cultivate a way of looking with
your spirit. Training your spirit is more important than defeating an
opponent.” “You see only with your eyes…” …Become still, like water… “Being
still and doing nothing are two very different things.”
Meditations
with Kelsey, entry #2
A quote from a Kendo artist: “Your
sword is your mind; only those who have attained a supreme level of technique,
experience and character are awarded…” the highest level of swordsmanship. In
Japan, only after you have held the next to highest level of swordsmanship for
10 years and are still studying are you eligible to test for the highest level
in Kendo. This made me think of the pursuit of violin. It takes years to master
anything well. Your violin must be your mind—whatever your mind thinks comes
out in your instrument, an extension of your very thoughts, feelings, emotions.
Meditations
with Kelsey, entry #3
Da
Da Dadadada Da Da Circus
Da
Da Dadadada Da Da Afro
Circus
Afro Circus Afro
Poke-a-dot
pok-a-dot pok-a-dot AFRO!!!
Just a reminder to live life full of color! Live life with abandon!!
(I couldn't figure out how to flip the picture...so deal with the neck cramp)
Meditations
with Kelsey, entry #4
“Mere change is not growth. Growth
is the synthesis of change and continuity, and where there is no continuity
there is no growth. “
~A Mind
Awake: An Anthology of C. S. Lewis
Yes, I am the same person but oh! so
very different. Perhaps the more different you become, the more the sameness is
retained; maybe some changes enhance the continuity.
Meditations with Kelsey, entry #5
Sometimes the answer is in the
question; the solution is in the problem. You may find the answers by asking
the questions; you may solve the problem by living it.
Meditations
with Kelsey, entry #6
“The more joy I find through my art,
the more liberated the genius who accompanies me becomes. Take darkness, for
example, when it surrounds you, you are completely lost but when a light is
illuminated it literally creates a way.” ~Wilner Lemite, Haitian Woodworking
artisan
When your work is a joy, you improve
and spread joy to those around you; when your work is a task, it becomes a
burden to yourself and everyone else.
Meditations
with Kelsey, entry #7
This is the miracle of abiding in
Jesus, being connected to Him, being in and with Him, my source of Life:
Luke 6:12-19
“It was at this time that He went
off to the mountain to pray, and He
spent the whole night in prayer to God. And when day came, He called
His disciples to Him and chose twelve of them, whom He also named as apostles .
. . Jesus came down with them and stood on a level place; and there was a large
crowd of His disciples, and a great throng of people from all Judea and
Jerusalem and the coastal region of Tyre and Sidon, who had come to hear Him
and to be healed of their diseases; and those who were troubled with unclean
spirits were being cured. And all the people were trying to touch Him, for power was coming from Him and healing
them all.”
This is true for me just as it was
true for Jesus, for He has given us the same relationship with God—we are
adopted as sons and fellow heirs with Christ! So when I spend time in God, in
prayer with Him, I become as Jesus was—power flowing from me to heal others.
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
June Highlights
Please Enjoy the Photo Journal of June!!
The Rutledge Family, my adopted family in Haiti :)
ABI!! :)
Shannon and Junior chatting
Dinner with two of the most AMAZING people ever!
Dirk and Karen
I told them to look natural :)
We found a random swing...? On which we proceeded swing.
Great fun.
Student recital--my three 6th year girls
playing Amazing Grace and
Halo
Our MC and my good friend, Wenson
Joe-Annie, Jessica, me, Rolande
The Prison visit, took care packages to the women's prison
Stuffing
Visit to
Also known as the Apparent Project
Hires local Haitians to do art projects which sell and then
support the workers
A Few Artisans
Goodies come in a box!
My AWESOME rainbow wig!!
PianoGuys, I love you. I even wear fan clothing...
BEEF!
Shannon and Abi helping me with a very LARGE bag of
peanut M&Ms
hey...they were tasty...
My very dear friend, Wenson after singing with his accompanist
My friend, Mario's, Graduation
The Class of 2013
Concert at Ecole Ste. Cecile
Percussion Group
Mini Ochestre
Monday, June 17, 2013
Harold, Gerald, and Ford
Well, this has been an exciting week for sure! Last Friday,
my sink shattered; Wednesday, the handle on my shower stopped working so I
couldn’t turn my shower off (it ran all night and then some the next day before
the plumber finally came to fix it); I walked to and from the post office twice
in one day without accomplishing what I walked to the post office to accomplish
(the first time I didn’t have enough money, the second time it was closed), and
had three guest cockroaches which I named Harold, Jarold, and Ford (honestly,
I’m not sure if it was the same one in three different places or three
different ones…).
On the other hand, there were calmer, nicer things that
happened to me this week: I was treated to dinner and the delightful company of
Dirk and Karen Martin, my precious adopted parents in Haiti; visited a cool
Haitian store that sells handmade teas, lotions, soaps, etc called Mel’Ange (if
you like that sort of thing and are in Petionville, you should stop by!); and
visited a Capoeira class at the Brazilian Cultural Center.
That’s my week in a nutshell! Happy Adventures, everyone!
P.S As a great kick-off to my week this week I HAVE A NEW NIECE!!!! Chelise Renae. 21", 6.6 lbs I got to be at the hospital via Skype!! Thank you, most gracious Lord, for a beautiful baby niece!!
| Chelise Renae |
Friday, June 7, 2013
A Dedication
To the women who wash my
clothes and make my food
For keeping me
clothed and fed I am ever indebted to you
With the rice and beans
hot chocolate and chicken
you keep my tummy full
and my lips I’m a-lickin’.
Piles of clothes
By hand you wash
Like jeans and dresses
And underwear and such
The smells from the kitchen
Waft to my nose
The warmth of the soup
Goes down to my toes
Clean garments hang out
Drying in the sun
Wringing out water
By hand can’t be fun
My white clothes are whiter
The holes are much bigger
My friends say I’m fatter
And I say, go figure
With the food I am given
And the clothes I get cleaned
I am well taken care of
Even better than it seemed
So a big thanks goes out
to Yolette and Marlene
For keeping me clean
But not very thin
With love and respect
I write this for you
In hopes that it brings
Much joy to you too
Monday, May 20, 2013
Happy Moments
This is a brief collection of images that captured happy moments from my life this past week.
Seeing Emerson and Carmen
play in the yard (via Skype)
Chatting with my parents
(also via Skype)
The Letters I’ve received
from Friends
Chocolate and Fruit!!
Celebrating Flag Day by Parading
through Champs de Mars for the debut of the Ecole Musique Sainte Trinité Marching Band
Wearing the Haitian Flag
on my Head!
My little Buddy, Billy!
Sassy Faces with Jessica
Flower with the Colors of
the Haitian Flag
My Haitian Sandals
Don't forget to appreciate the small things in life, friends! Look for the extraordinary in the average, the miracle in the mundane.
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